Honoring the guest is much more than a part of the tradition of Islam, it is part of its fundamentals.
During my years of traveling in the Muslim world, I have been a guest all the time. This is how I have learned the art of receiving guests.
When you are guest of a perfumer, you will hope to be invited to smell some very special perfumes, to try them or even to be offered something.
Certainly I do not disappoint my guests in their expectations, but I stupefy them when I serve them tea or coffee flavored with the essences of exotic species. Cardamom, Ginger, Mint, Lemon …
Or when I add to the drinking water a drop of rose or of peppermint, when I spray over the cookies essential oil of grapefruit or lemon, aromatic water of bay laurel and rosemary over the salad or the food.
If they come to me with some cold or other illness, I prepare for them some honey with a few drops of anise or incense ….
Then I say to them my favorite phrase: “Never trust a perfumer who does not drink and eat his perfumes.”
What would you say about a person who has shelves full of medicines to cure all diseases.
These medicines have wonderful colors and this person has decided to be a painter in life, and he uses them only for that. He does not want to know in the least how they can be used for healing.
So when his family or his friends fall ill he cannot use the remedies that he has at hand in order to relieve their sufferings and to heal them.
Would not you say that this person is an ignorant?
The natural perfumer who does neither study nor practice Aromatherapy, content to just make perfumes, is like this person.
The history of perfume dates back to ancient times when it was associated with the sacred, with the spiritual and with the healing art.
Perfume making was the privilege of priests and healers, and often the healing art was reserved to priests themselves. The use of aromatic materials was mostly limited to religious and medical use.
Then the advent of Islam 14 centuries ago. The personal use of perfume was made compulsory for all Muslims for:
The congregational prayer on Friday
The purification of women after their menstrual flow
Entering the state of purification for the pilgrimage
The purification of the dead during the washing ritual
Since then aroma, while maintaining its sacred and medical use, passed from the hands of a few priests and doctors at the hands of everyone.
This was the first democratization of perfume. It was no longer restricted to either a social class (nobles), a religious one (rabbis, priests) or an economic one (the rich). Everyone in the community of Islam had the obligation to use perfume, if they could.
In Jewish mysticism all senses give pleasure to the body, except for the sense of smell that gives pleasure to the soul. Goods scents elevate spiritually.
With Islam, it became a means to spiritualize the life of people.
The profession of perfumer was born then, he was a “doctor perfumer”, who healed the hearts and the bodies.
The hearts are cured with the emotions that smelling perfumes procure and the bodies are cured with the molecules that these perfumes contain.
Because the molecules that cure the body are the same that make the smell, it is impossible to dissociate the healing of the hearts from the healing of the body, as much as it is impossible to dissociate the smell from the perfume.
It is not just impossible, it is pervert.
In the perfume pleasure and spirituality are one, physical and emotional healing are one. The natural perfumer is a healer, willingly or unwillingly.